The Power of Confidence
April 28, 2021
Kylie-Ann Kobelt
Confidence can quite literally help every aspect of your life. How you think, how you work, how you foster relationships and how you take action. For many, it’s much easier said than done.

Confidence is a word that umbrellas the likes of ‘self-confidence’, ‘self-esteem’ and self-efficacy’ but in reality, these can be very different. In fact, we can be highly skilled in an area with huge amounts of confidence but in another, experience very little of those feelings. Think about our time as children at school – we may have proudly stood at the top of the class of English lessons but once the afternoon math class came around, we sat at the back of the classroom, hoping our name wouldn’t be called out by the teacher.

There are distinct differences between self-esteem and self-confidence. Self-esteem refers to the level of appreciation and value you have for yourself. It develops and changes throughout your life based on experience and interactions with other people. Often, the people around us will influence our level of self-esteem. Self-confidence, on the other hand, surrounds our belief of what we can and can’t do and the trust in our abilities.

So, for something that is relatively simple to grasp, why do people struggle so much to achieve it?

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Confidence (or lack thereof) is a self-fuelling cycle so when it takes a hit, it can be difficult to regain momentum. This leads us to discussing the role of shame in the yearn for confidence.

Shame is a roadblock to recovery and becomes part of the reason why people don’t seek help, in whatever capacity that may be. Many consider shame a negative emotion, but it’s actually not an emotion at all, it is a limiting belief.

A limiting belief is the idea, thoughts and decisions we have made about ourselves that inhibit us from living our best life. They exist within our unconscious mind and shape our responses to opportunities, experiences and events around us. When it comes to shame, this can often be intertwined with guilt.

I have no doubt that at some stage in your life, you have lacked self-confidence but felt shame around admitting it – “what would others think of me?”, you may have asked yourself.

Shame makes us believe that regardless of whether we sought help, we would still fail, disappoint or frustrate others and ourselves. It leads up down the path of limiting beliefs that we are not smart enough, attractive enough, talented enough or well-liked enough to find success in whatever it is we are struggling with.

So, I asked you, where is the problem in actually just not knowing or not having the resources? Absolutely nothing! The problem is not taking action to make the changes, to build your skillset or equip yourself with the knowledge or resources to do something.

I recently wrote a thought-provoking article that shared that even the masters started as beginners.

It was a reminder to all that at some stage in our lives, we may not have all the answers we’re looking for or the resources we need to achieve something but that doesn’t mean it isn’t possible. Around us, our network can provide us with what we need to feel fulfilled, but we need to harness our confidence to turn it into action. That’s where I come in.

My role is to share my tried and tested strategies to tackle these limiting beliefs that are blocking your pathway to confidence. As a business owner, rediscovering confidence is one of the key components to unleashing your full potential and aligning your mindset. Confidence not only supports us to achieve incredible results in business but brings about fulfilling and enriching relationships, opportunities and self-belief.

If you’re still searching for those resources, let me lend a hand. Book your free 40-minute discovery call to get clearer on your pathway to confidence sooner.

Kylie-Ann Kobelt

Kylie-Ann Kobelt

Personal Life Coach, Business Coach & Change Mentor

 

Hi, I’m Kylie-Ann, it is not the things that happen outside yourself that affect you the most. What goes on inside your head is the most powerful indicator of your success as a person. So, if your thinking becomes clearer and more empowered, so does your life.

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