Survive, Strive or Strike Back
December 28, 2018
Kylie-Ann Kobelt

As it’s now the new year which for many of us feels like a reset on our lives. It’s a fantastic period of the year where we can plan and start to achieve bigger and better goals or revisit and reinstate your intentions on those that were overlooked and left behind.

What next year has in store for you is up to YOU. 

The goals you have planned and the actions you implement will be the stepping stones to where 2019 takes you. 

Are you the driver of your own vehicle? 

Or are you sitting in the passenger seat trying to direct a driver with no real idea of where you need to go? Many of us have a sense of where you would like to end up but haven’t fully committed to the ACTION that needs to take place to get there. 

To achieve a goal, you will need to make changes. 

For most of us, change can be a scary and unpredictable road. We know the location, but the destination feels a little too bumpy and unachievable. Instead, we stay in the comfort of our old walls and our old habits, with our goals being mere wishes in the wind. 

But I have to ask, what are you not doing that if you did do it, your life would be complete? How would achieving your goals make you feel?

Perhaps you’ve decided to set a goal to earn an additional $10 000 a month. This money could help pay for a family holiday overseas or help ease your financial stress. In fact, earning this money would mean there would be fewer arguments in the family, and you would be able to start doing things that truly made you happy. You just need to work out a way to get there.

So, what is stopping you?

The difference between wanting your goals and achieving your goals is that maybe you don’t believe in the goal 100%. Let’s say you are 75% committed to the goal and being able to actually achieve it.

What is the other 25% about? 

Is it doubt? Lack of self-confidence? Whatever is happening in that 25% is actually setting you off in the wrong direction. Sadly, it’s going to stop you from fully achieving your goals for the year. Understanding why there is a part of you that doesn’t believe your goals 100% is the key to a successful year.

One of the biggest things you can do is to begin to change how you see your goals.

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Think like a winner, and you have won already. 

Tennis champion Federer was interviewed on how he was going to beat Nadal. He said “ I go onto the court as if I have already won. I play as I have already won the game.”

See, to go onto the court still wondering how he was going to beat Nadal means his focus isn’t where he needs it to be and it will then create a ‘different’ game and most likely a different result. The feelings and belief behind the approach of winning are just not as powerful.

“Focus on the strike every-time”

STOP WISHING you might have an additional $10 000 in the bank each month and start BELIEVING that you will have that money in the bank each month. 

When we put the energy into knowing we can knock down all the pins, we end up playing a different game. Rather than wondering if we can…this will have you head off the road on a beaten track with no idea if we will make it to our destination. It’s why so many people give up after a few months or even a few weeks of trying to achieve their goals because you are suddenly lost and start going in an entirely different direction until…..?

I want 2019 to be the year that you achieve the goals that you set. I want you to look back at 2019 and have the feeling of security and success that you DESERVE!

To do this, you need to get clear on what is missing and what is not working for you right now. We need to plan and take action so that you are prepared for the journey ahead. When you work out what the 25% is about, what’s holding you back, you will launch forward with a new plan and actions that are going to be better prepared and therefore ready for that SUCCESSFUL outcome.

Do you think having that road map with focus and direction would be beneficial for you?

I work with individuals one on one with a ‘Solution Design’. Create and map out your year with achievable outcomes. How you want it!

So, let’s work on your goals for 2019 together so that you can get to the destination you desire.

Schedule a Free Clarity Call, and we can get started on an actionable plan that will bring you results.  2019 is going to be YOUR year!


Kylie-Ann Kobelt

Kylie-Ann Kobelt

Personal Life Coach, Business Coach & Change Mentor


Hi, I’m Kylie-Ann, it is not the things that happen outside yourself that affect you the most. What goes on inside your head is the most powerful indicator of your success as a person. So, if your thinking becomes clearer and more empowered, so does your life.

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